A few days ago on TIME.com’s Healthland page, there appeared an article by one Maia Szalavitz, having to do with how Facebook makes you feel shitty about yourself. In an act both altruistic and mischievously ironic, a former schoolmate of mine shared the article on Facebook. Nicely done, my friend!
Ms. Salavitz’s lead-in:
Have other people’s blithe Facebook updates ever made you feel like a total loser? Or have you ever felt that your best friend’s life is perfectly easy and joyful, while yours is nothing but struggle and anxiety? You’re not alone. Everybody has these experiences, finds an illuminating new study [PDF] from Stanford University, and they tend to exacerbate feelings of loneliness, isolation and dissatisfaction in an already alienating society.
I found this somewhat reassuring, since I definitely identify with the syndrome. I can’t even guess how many times I’ve perused my Facebook newsfeed and thought something like, “Look how all my friends are so happy, thriving and successful, looking great and raising adorable kids. I am so staying away from the reunion.”
The Stanford study is said to have been inspired by the “Facebook envy” experience, but it doesn’t address it Read the rest of this entry »




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